The Things That Are True Are Not The Things That Thing That Most Of Us Want To Be True

I was talking to my friend today about female sexuality and the myths surrounds that.
He was talking about how most girls that you see (especially if they're innocent looking) are not as sexual compared to men. This is a huge misconception in my opinion. I think girls are just as sexual as guys but in a different way.

I'm not saying nearly all girls are wildly horny that wants to grab any cock they see.

I wish that was true though. It makes it easier on us guys. And some other girls likes eating carpet.

But anyway, my point was that my friend has misconception that most girls are not interested in sex at all. If you read any woman magazine such as Vogue or any other nonsense that girls read, you find that got a lot of articles/advice about sex. Just have a look and I guarantee that got more than 2 articles about sex.

I also bet you that these magazines have more articles about sex than men magazines such as FHM.

Then you read some of the other rubbish that they read such as Mills & Boon romance novels. You rather smash your head against the wall than read any of those. Basically these novels are female version of porn but with words only.

My point is that most of the things that are true are usually not the things most of us want us to be true because it collides or is against our existing belief system. We become so brainwash by TV, movies and friends that they are all sugar and sweet.

In fact, they are just as bad as guys. I had a client of mine who is a hairdresser, she was talking about how common women cheat on their husbands or lie about how much money they spend. It was totally unbelievable the stories that she told me.

If you're a female and think this is wrong, please post a comment and explain why it's not true.

End rant.

Why It's Important To Learn How An Asshole Feel

I was thinking the other day about one of my clients. A few weeks ago he wanted to see me to get his back fixed. He was in a little bit of pain and didn't bother checking out on the front desk and came bolting in my door.

"Hey mate, what's up? Are you free now?" He said without a care in the world.

Meanwhile, i was massaging somebody ass with her crack wide open (she was Muslim by the way, and anytime a man see her flesh, she has to pray to allah).

Anyhoo, I told him to get loss and go to the waiting room.

On the way out he boomed out "hey that women got a big fat ass hasn't she?"

Now I don't know how she reacted because her face was plastered down on the bed but i think i know how she feels. She probably was all red faced and probably prayed to god to put a Jihad on that guy.

Obviously, that guy was an inconsiderate asshole that shouldn't be allowed to live with any decent human beings.

But it got me thinking...

How the hell can he live with himself on this planet? But if you think simply, you get it.

This guy doesn't think he really is an asshole. He thinks he is a great and funny guy. He is misunderstood and if people think he did something wrong, then it's their fault. He made up a lot of things in his mind that can't be changed.

His mind is inflexible.

And the thing is.... everybody is somewhat rigid in their thinking. It is very easy to think we're always right and it's very hard for us to think we're wrong.

It's human nature.

People hate change. Actually they despise any changes - because we scared of it.

The only way to really persuade or change this thinking of this person is to at least 'walk in his shoes for a mile before judging him'. Once you know someone's thinking, you can rationanize his thoughts and explain it in his way.

If you read the book, "How to Win Friends and Influence People", this is what the book basically say to do.

So if you really want to influence people........ just walk in his shoes for a mile before judging him.

Ok, now think of someone that you know, someone he is too rigid or too stiff in their thinking and try to walk in their shoes. You be surprised how insightful you will be. You don't have to change your thinking or your beliefs.

Conversely, try to walk in someone else's shoe that is more successful than you. You might learn how far you limited your belief's or worldview are.